新概念英语视频教程

1. Be enthusiastic. Show interest in the person you meet. Don’t hold back or be afraid to show that you’re excited about something. In fact, people often see passion as a charming sign of strength and inspiration. Showing your enthusiasm by smiling or incorporating friendly humor will make you seem approachable and easygoing.

1.热情。对见面人展现兴趣。不要克制或害怕展示你对某事物的激动之情。事实上，大家常常将激情看作是力量和鼓舞的迷人迹象。通过微笑或友好的幽默展现你的热情，这能够让你看起来平易近人。

2. Show respect. People want to feel respected before they reciprocated. Be polite and show manners with please and thank you and don’t just focus your manners towards the person you meet. Make sure to treat everyone around you well, too as it shows a lot about who you are. For example, if you’re out for dinner, be sure to treat your waiters well, not only your date.

2. 表示尊重。大家都希望在受到别人尊重后，再给予相同尊重。要有礼貌，多说请和谢谢，还有，不要只对你的会面对象展现礼貌。确保友好地对待你身边的每一个人，因为这很大程度上展现了你的内在品质。例如，如果你们外出吃饭，除了礼貌对待约会对象外，请一定礼貌对待服务员。

3. Be open to new ideas. Openness is an inviting trait, so give new experiences a shot. You don’t have to lie and be enthusiastic about it if you didn’t enjoy it, but let people know that you’re willing to try something new with them. This will also encourage them to be open to your suggestions as well. Engaging in new activity together is a great conversation starter and can create a sense of closeness.

3. 接受新观点。开放的态度是一种诱人的品质，所以尝试一下新的体验。如果不喜欢，不必撒谎或假装喜欢，但一定要让对方知道你希望和对方尝试新的事物。这样也会鼓励他们接受你的建议。共同参与新的活动是一个好的对话的开端并能创造出一种亲密感。