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I posed this dilemma on a few social media sites and the majority of you agreed that the "get the next one" method is the simplest course of action. Anamari suggested a slight alternative:

几天前我在一些社交网站上发出了这个帖子，大部分人都觉得“你付下一单”这个方法简单便行。然而，一位网友对此提出了异议：

I wouldn't put someone on the spot by saying "you're paying, right?" or "you've got this one" without fair warning. After all, they might be short on cash in that moment, too, and simply hadn't remembered the last time. If it's really important to get evened up, I'd say something at the time of setting up the date, either very directly or along the lines of "I'm tight for cash this week, can you get me this time? Last time it was me."

“没事先声明的话，我不会跟朋友说‘这次你来付’之类的。毕竟，可能他们真的是钱紧，或者就是真的忘了。如果我手头也很紧张的话，我会在约出去玩的时候就先说好，或者直接告诉他们‘我最近手头有点紧，这次你能付吗?上次是我。’”

I'd argue that in most cases you're not really putting them on the spot when you're dealing with insignificant amounts like $5-10. If they can afford that amount for themselves, coming up with double shouldn't be an issue. Nonetheless, if you want to take a more sensitive approach you can always ask them before you go out so nobody finds themselves in an awkward position when it comes time to pay。

我想说的是，如果你们涉及的金额只是5~10美元这样的话，其实不必担心会让你的朋友尴尬。如果他们自己付得起，那么多付一份也没关系。但是，如果你真的想更谨慎一些，可以选择每次出去前都询问一下，这样当涉及到账单时就没有人会觉得尴尬了。